What To Do When the Hits Keep Coming

I was recently reminded that when the hits keep coming that’s exactly when you double down on trust!
A few weeks ago I was driving down a busy street in my neighborhood on the way to a medical procedure when a mural on the side of a building jumped out at me…
“Grow through what you go through.”
Message received.
Rewind to the start of the new year when I was a few days into a 20-plus day hospital stay with my daughter after a major surgery for her chronic medical condition when I had to get to work switching all of my medical specialists for my chronic health condition due to an insurance change.
After 25 years with one transplant center, I had to switch to the one across town. All I could keep thinking was,” Really?!? Now?!? In the midst of everything else I have to deal with this – I feel completely fine!” But I pressed on in order to have my care team “all set” should I need them…but I KNEW I wouldn’t.
I still felt like a victim of the system. I felt put out and I complained. Alot.
You would think after all these years helping clients see how life happens for them
and not to them I would remember that trust makes life better.
It took awhile but I eventually came to the conclusion that maybe having a second set of eyes on this second gift of life was exactly what I needed.
And it was! Although I felt fine and all my “numbers” looked good, the protocol my new transplant center follows detected an active rejection of my eight-years out kidney transplant.
Life happens for me.
After an extra procedure and test to determine the best course of treatment my new care team and I are on the path to help this transplant have a long, healthy life! If I hadn’t been kicked in the butt to make the switch the rejection could have gone undetected for a long time and potentially damaged the kidney and shortened its life span.
So what can you do when the hits keep coming in life?
Remember that:
Intentional growth requires deliberate practice (I may have saved myself some bellyaching if I had kept this front of mind!)
Life is happening for you not to you (and this doesn’t always negate the suck in the moment).
Trust makes life better because you are able to catch the hit and respond in your personal power to whatever is thrown your way.

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